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Writer's pictureLindsay Dowling

Navigating Life with Everything in Moderation

Updated: Mar 25, 2024

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While 'It's the little things' remains the cornerstone of my beliefs, another motto I embrace is 'Everything in Moderation.' Admittedly, this principle isn't a universal solution. If you're endeavoring to quit smoking, a simple 'just quit' directive won't suffice. However, for those grappling with consuming an entire bar of chocolate daily, moderation offers a practical strategy. Let me share a few instances where this approach has profoundly benefited me, in the hope of inspiring you.


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1. A Delicious Path to Sustainable Weight Loss


Embracing the philosophy of 'everything in moderation' had a profound impact on my weight loss journey, shedding a remarkable 10 kilograms. Like many, I have an unabashed love for food, who doesn't? Yet, unlike the predictable diets of animals, we humans are faced with an endless array of culinary choices, tantalizing recipes, and new flavor sensations constantly vying for our attention.


Approaching food with moderation requires a pragmatic mindset. I've found that drastic diet overhauls often prove unsustainable. Take pasta, for example, a timeless favorite of mine for its deliciousness and versatility.


However, there's a prevailing societal notion that indulging in pasta, bread, or any form of carbohydrates is inherently unhealthy. While I'm no nutritionist, I challenge this. Enjoying my beloved pasta dishes in moderation feels like a sensible compromise. After all, why deny oneself the pleasures of life when balance is achievable? As the saying goes, I can have my cake and eat it too!


Big bowl of pasta.

I firmly reject the notion that achieving a healthy eating pattern and losing weight requires stripping away all the foods you love from your daily consumption. Instead, it's about moderation and finding equilibrium.


For instance, when enjoying a cup of tea, I allow myself the occasional biscuit or piece of chocolate. However, instead of immediately reaching for seconds, I opt to wait, allowing time for my body to register satisfaction. More often than not (though not always), I find that I don't actually need more and am content with what I've already had.


By making these subtle adjustments and cultivating healthier, sustainable habits, you might be surprised at how quickly you'll notice positive changes in your body.


2. Work Hard, Play Hard


I find the term 'hard' somewhat inappropriate when it comes to the pursuit of success in life. Pushing ourselves excessively in work can result in detrimental outcomes such as strained social and family relationships, persistent stress, and insufficient self-care time. (Yes, Mom, this includes you.)


On the flip side, engaging in excessive binge drinking, late nights, and uncomfortable social interactions can lead to similar negative consequences.

"Live a life that is well balanced; don't do things in excess."

Daniel Smith


As Jessica Day exclaims in the TV show New Girl: 'Shut it down!' It's essential to establish boundaries and shut down work-related tasks by 5 pm. And who decided that the 9-to-5 work schedule was suitable anyway? (insert eye roll)


The key message here is to strike a balance between work and social life. Embrace moderation in both aspects. Work should not consume all your time and energy; likewise, excessive partying should not overshadow your responsibilities. Finding equilibrium between work and social activities is crucial for maintaining overall well-being and satisfaction in life.


3. The Art of Moderation in Exercise


Why exercise? While I'm not a fitness expert, I can direct you to well-researched articles that delve deeper into this topic. My personal take is that exercising in moderation provides a valid excuse to not overburden oneself with daily workouts, and there's some factual backing to this.


Engaging in excessive exercise can lead to various issues, including injuries, overspending on gym memberships, and even developing an unhealthy obsession. I've observed individuals fixating on their gym routines while on vacation with their families, neglecting precious moments together.


It's crucial to recognize the importance of letting go and taking breaks from rigorous exercise regimens. However, it's equally essential to approach this in moderation and at appropriate times. Ultimately, the goal is to cultivate a healthy relationship with exercise. In my experience, achieving this balance involves embracing moderation and finding enjoyment in activities that resonate with you. Perhaps it's time to explore the self-loving and fulfilling practice of yoga?


4. Moderation in the Digital Age


It may seem like an obvious point, yet sometimes we need a gentle reminder. I cherish the connections I maintain with friends and family scattered across the globe. Social media facilitates effortless communication, keeping me updated on their lives and enabling us to share moments of joy on special occasions.


Moreover, social media serves as a valuable tool for promoting this blog. It serves as inspiration for both my professional endeavors and personal growth. Additionally, it provides a platform to confront harsh realities in our world, empowering me to contribute towards positive change, one step at a time.


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However, there exists a darker side to social media and technology that many of us have experienced firsthand. The pervasive negativity and disappointment can be overwhelming at times. Witnessing respected individuals share divisive political content that contradicts the greater good is disheartening. Moreover, the constant comparison to curated portrayals of others' lives breeds unhealthy feelings of inadequacy.


In response, moderation becomes essential in navigating this digital landscape. Personally, I've implemented simple strategies to mitigate the negative impact. Setting a 15-minute timer on Instagram serves as a gentle reminder to limit my usage.


Additionally, I've established a nightly wind-down routine, activating a phone shutdown feature at 10 pm. This allows me to disconnect from screens and dedicate a solid hour to reading or meditation before bed. Admittedly, the irony of using a phone app for meditation isn't lost on me, but it serves its purpose.


While I'm no trailblazer in this regard, I've found that merely making an effort and cultivating awareness around our technology habits can yield significant positive changes.


A Moderate Conclusion


We have reached that point where I modestly tell you to take a little step. Replace the sugar with honey, don't go back for seconds, exercise at a reasonable pace, stop working at inappropriate times, and set a timer on an overused app. I'm always here for more unsolicited advice and an oversimplification of life.

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My goal with this blog is to share those little steps. The steps I have taken and am still taking in order to live my best life. The little steps and changes you can take to create a healthier and happier body and mind. The little steps you can take around dreamy cities, little towns, and perfect beaches. The little but impactful moments in history. 

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