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Writer's pictureLindsay Dowling

Busting the Myth: Why Diets Don't Work and What Does

Updated: Mar 25, 2024

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Have your Cake and Eat it Too!


Before diving in, let me be clear: I'm just one voice in a sea of opinions, and I recognize that not everyone will share my views. While I'm not a certified nutritionist, I believe there's value in sharing personal experiences and learning from each other.


Consider this a glimpse into my thoughts, a sort of personal journal entry as I navigate through a topic that often sparks debate.


"Diet" can mean many things, from cultural or religious food practices to lifestyle choices like vegetarianism or veganism. It's also crucial for managing conditions like diabetes or IBS. Yet, for many, the word conjures images of highly controlled, short-term regimens aimed solely at weight loss. Let's investigate some of the key reasons diets don't work.


Navigating Self-Esteem and Body Positivity


I'm no authority on self-esteem or body positivity. In fact, I'm still on my own journey of self-discovery and growth. Like many, I've grappled with doubts and moments of self-deprecation. I am sure, every individual has, at some point, experienced self-doubt and self-criticism. But not every individual has triumphed over self-torment and transformed it into a power statement.


My battle with body image is ongoing. Every day, I find myself scrutinizing certain parts I've deemed less than perfect – from my legs that don't seem as toned as I'd like, to arms that jiggle more than I'd prefer, to a tummy that insists on rolling, and even to stubborn acne scars that refuse to fade. It's a never-ending cycle of dissatisfaction.


Women of all different shapes and colours standing in their underwear. You can only see their body from the shoulders down.

Of course, societal influences haven't helped. We've been bombarded with unrealistic standards of beauty for years. Images of flawlessly airbrushed bodies that bear little resemblance to reality. And as we strive to dismantle these harmful ideals, we must also question the impact of fad diets promising quick fixes.


I've fallen prey to the allure of rapid weight loss schemes – the ones that promise results in just a couple of weeks. After all, the before-and-after photos make it look so easy, right? But the truth is far from glamorous. While some may see short-term success, the long-term effects, both physical and psychological, often leave much to be desired, reminding us why diets don't work.


Sure, you might shed a few grams, but at what cost? And what happens once the diet ends? For some, the results are fleeting, disappearing as quickly as they came. And for others, the toll on mental and physical well-being far outweighs any temporary gains.


Shortcomings: The Long-Term Impact

It's a cycle I've seen play out time and time again – the fleeting triumph of a successful diet, followed by the inevitable regression. The results, once so promising, quickly slip through our fingers, leaving us right back where we started.


The problem lies in the very nature of these diets – they're designed to be temporary fixes, not sustainable lifestyle changes. The restrictions they impose make it nearly impossible to enjoy meals, let alone navigate social gatherings or the everyday challenges of life.


And when the inevitable cravings set in, fueled by weeks of deprivation, it's all too easy to succumb to overeating or bingeing. After all, who can blame you for seeking comfort in familiar habits?


But here's the truth: Your body knows what it needs, perhaps better than anyone or anything else. And yet, many diets fail to provide those essential nutrients, leaving you feeling unsatisfied and unfulfilled.


Worse still, the relentless pursuit of these quick fixes can lead to a dangerous cycle of disordered eating. It's a cruel irony – those who turn to dieting in search of control often find themselves more out of control than ever before.


In the end, these diets do more harm than good. They strip away the joy of eating and leave us feeling defeated and disheartened. We need to embrace a more holistic approach to health – one that prioritizes nourishment and enjoyment over deprivation and restriction.

Unveiling The Psychological Impact


The pressure to adhere to strict diet rules weighs heavily on us, often manifesting as guilt and self-loathing when we dare to indulge in a slice of cake or enjoy a night out with friends. This guilt can spiral into a toxic cycle of self-hate, inflicting more damage on our mental well-being than the diet itself ever could.


We've been conditioned to equate the food we consume with our self-worth, as if our value as individuals hinges solely on the number on the scale. But there's so much more to us than our weight – qualities like kindness, compassion, and resilience should take precedence over arbitrary beauty standards.


Yet, society's narrow definition of health perpetuates harmful stereotypes, labeling slim bodies as "healthy" and larger bodies as "unhealthy." But who are we to judge? As Andrea Hardy from Ignite Nutrition aptly puts it,


"Some people may not accept the body you live in, but YOU are the one who has to live in it."

These misconceptions about health only serve to undermine our confidence and fuel a never-ending cycle of self-criticism and restriction.


The Toll on the Body


While you may experience some weight loss, it can just quickly come rushing back as you naturally return to your eating habits. Thus the cycle begins,  you're trapped in a never-ending cycle of yo-yo dieting. Each new diet promises a solution, yet the struggle to make food decisions becomes a battle against the self-doubt and fear ingrained in our minds.


As the numbers on the scale creep up once again, so too do feelings of shame and unworthiness, driving us to seek out the next quick fix. But this perpetual cycle takes a toll on more than just our emotions – it can wreak havoc on our physical health as well.


Fluctuating weight can disrupt our hormones, elevate blood pressure, and strain our heart health, setting off a chain reaction of negative consequences. While I'm no expert, you can delve into the detailed physical dangers of dieting through reputable sources.


According to Healthline, the irony of eating too few calories is that it can actually decrease metabolism. Yes, cutting calories is often necessary for weight loss, but slashing them to extremes – below 1000 per day – can send your body into survival mode. In response to perceived scarcity, it slows down metabolism to conserve energy, thwarting your efforts in the long run.


A select arry of healthy foods including salmon, avocado, fruit

Diets Don't Work But This Does


It's time to shift our focus away from the illusion of one-size-fits-all diets and quick fixes. After all, no two bodies are alike, so why should we expect the same diet to work for everyone?


Instead, let's prioritize a holistic and mindful approach to health, one that revolves around sustainable lifestyle changes rather than fleeting weight loss goals. Personally, I've discovered immense success by simply becoming more conscious of what I eat and practicing portion control, savoring a piece of chocolate rather than devouring an entire bar. My mantra? "Everything in moderation."


The solution may not be revolutionary or glamorous, but it's refreshingly attainable. Choose a lifestyle centered on nutritious, enjoyable eating habits and some physical activity, like one of my personal favourites, yoga. As these habits become second nature, you'll find yourself feeling more energized and vibrant, with a newfound enthusiasm for life.


So go ahead, and indulge in that slice of cake, because true health is about balance, not deprivation.

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